her brother abuses her, and i can't see him to stop him. i'vnever been to there house and i never see him
what can i do? should i tell someone even though she sed no
and help with any info you can get
2006-06-17 16:58:51 · 14 answers · asked by blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if she is under the age of 18, you should tell whether she said to or not, especially if her brother is over the age of 18. That is one of those things that should not be kept a secret, even if she gets mad at you.
2006-06-17 17:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by mountain_laurel1183 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone NOW. Even if she says no. When someone is being abused, they are also being told by the abuser NOT to tell anyone or something bad will happen to them, the family, etc. Call the cops, call the local child services if she is under 18, call anyone else you can think of. You can call anonymously so she and her brother won't know who called. She told youb ecause she is calling out for help, no matter what she says about telling somene else. She may be mad at you for awhile, but she will, in time, realize that you are doing this to protect her, not hurt her.
One bad thing is, tho, that if she doesn't want to get her brother into trouble, she will tell authorities that nothing is wrong/going on and won't press charges. You may need to keep reporting this and get others to do the same thing until he gets caught or they suspect enough to take him out of the home.
2006-06-18 00:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops her tell her parents. Even if she doesn't want anyone to find out remember, she needs help. Being abused by her brother isn't helping her at all.
2006-06-18 00:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone like the school counselor. Tell him/her the situation And ask for guidance, it depends on the structure of her family on how to go about this... it also depends on your gf and her brother's age.
2006-06-18 00:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she under threat by her psycho brother therefore she wants to keep it secret. you should report police as soon as possible. what i remember now; be sure some people say lie about that kinds of situation. this is psychological problem.
2006-06-18 02:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by eliaydin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's underage, tell anyone and everyone you can!
If he's 18 or older, abuse him alittle...
In fact...Tell everyone you can anyhow.
Abuse in any form is still wrong.
2006-06-18 00:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by blackwolf917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops man. This is a no brainer. You will always regret it if you don't.
2006-06-18 00:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by scottie2h2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES tell someone. if you don't want her to get mad, do it anonymously. even if she finds out you did it, it's worth it for her to be mad....you're saving her from danger. please, tell a school counselor or ask your parents what to do. you can also call an abuse hotline. good luck....if you care about her you need to help. if she really didn't want someone to step in, she wouldn't have told you.
2006-06-18 00:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if it is against her wishes, tell somebody. if she is under 18 then u had tell and tell someone quickly!
2006-06-18 00:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's using her, and she told you no.
I think she's trying to put you off.
leave her alone for a while and see if she still shows interest.
2006-06-18 00:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋