I keep on telling her how ill change and that i realized exactly what not to do in a relationship, i love you etc etc....Everyone says not to call. But i want her to think i care. Ive sent flowers, sobbed to her, ignored her and evreything... but she still says she doent know if she wans to be with me...and shes confused. Yet theres another guy in the picture now who is her best friends, boyfriends best friend, and they all dont really like me. And shes telling everyone were done, but me she says were on a break and that she just doesnt know cause she feels there nothing left for her to give anymore, because of stuff thats happened in the past.. I bought her a trip to mexico for her bday before we broke up that were suppost to leave on in 2 weeks, and she said she has no money etc.But i said getting away would maybe help us work stuff out, but if she doesnt go shouldi pretty much know its done? and what should i say to her etc. I want her back so bad... HELP
2006-06-17 16:45:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its over pal....plenty of fish in sea....move on
2006-06-17 16:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Savant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that your girl may be gone for good. What I wonder is, why do you care so much about this girl? She may be really pretty but I believe that you are not being realistic about this. You may never change since you are just being yourself when the break up occurrs. You could also suffer from low self esteem. You are a bit too generous with this chic--trips to Mexico? She doesn't have any money? Dump the bum!
Brother, man to man: She is not good for you. Let her go and find a girl with a real job and some money to her name. You want a partner in this life, not some sponge who will gain 60 pounds and drain you bank account and fill you with 5 kids, capice?
Mr. M on relationships
2006-06-17 23:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it's pretty though when you want someone so bad and it seems like no matter what you do you can't reach them. I think you bugging her and sending her flowers and sobbing to her is just gonna make her push you further away. Like you said you tried everything. I think you should just leave her alone, hopefully she will start missing you and wondering what you are doing and realize she does want you back.
2006-06-17 23:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space and time to decide. Remember the famous lines - If you love someone let her go. If it is true love she will come back. If she doesn't it never was. Easier said than done. Yes, but really there is no other way.
2006-06-17 23:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by HarshaW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist of all dose she tell you that she loves you? if yes you can tell her that no matter what you would stop loveing her.if she still refuses you play the same game that she is playing.get another girl but be carful dont fall inlove with her. if your gfriend looks and feels jealous that means she still loves you .and you can stop playing the game and
dont take any advice from your friends.good luck
2006-06-18 00:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? Get yourself another girl and pretend you really dig her (maybe let the girl know that she's just a decoy).
I guarantee that your gf will want you just because she can't have you anymore. I'm a female, I know what I'm talking about.
2006-06-17 23:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am copy writing this shittttt right now cuz its mine i wrote it to my example ur the root to all beauty tha enters my life and ur an asset i would never compromise for anything
2006-06-17 23:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋