But I have'nt seen him for a month and two weeks. Cause he's to busy with work like I said he's a workaholic. So my question is should I forget him and move on or wait and see what happen's,
one thing I do get to speak to him all the time . Cause he call me everyday....
2006-06-17 16:55:51 · 16 answers · asked by choco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he calls everyday then that's a good sign...you should tell him how you feel about the situation. Maybe he'll give you the answer your looking for...Communication is the key in all relationships
2006-06-17 16:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by Maestro 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I say multitask your life a little darling. It is just dating and there's no rules saying you are limited to only date at a time.
So he's a work-a-holic, then that's what he feels he should do at this time in his life, given a bigger picture, if you were in a relationship with him or even moved onto marriage from that, would you be able to live with this kind of schedule? (your an sewer to that question should help you decide alone)
But after saying that, it's not like you have to toss him aside and ignore him, start living your life and see other people as well. In doing so it'll help you enjoy your life a bit more and also may show him what he's missing out on.
In short, keep up the conversations if you enjoy them that much, and keep an open mind and schedule for other hope-fulls that may come along.
2006-06-17 17:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Gallen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you already know what a relationship may be like if you do persue it- i already know that he works alot so if you get with him do not complain that he does not spend enough time with you etc.
I feel that if you can deal with that- I say persue him- esp. that you two seem to have great communication and that for sure is one key factor in any relationship that you have-
good luck- do it- good guys are hard to find- don't just pass him over- give him a chance- we don't know what the future holds- thinking about it the more he works- the more promotions he may get on the job and from my exerience- the higher up you are the more money you make and you do less work.lol
anyway good luck
2006-06-17 17:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by shalirha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe that, and I would not buy it... Even workaholics can find time if they are really interested with someone.. I myself i work in a hospital 24-7 but if I want to see someone who is special in my heart i would plan my work day schedule to be with that someone who means the world to me, besides lets get REAL, I know we need the money but sometimes we also need time for ourselves to relax, unwind. We cannot go on and on without a day off... Not unless this person has something going on and was not even honest enough to let you know so you can focus yourself to a different person or some other things to do that will be more beneficial to you than wasting your time on someone like this....hey he is supposed to set his best foot forward specially if you say he likes you... if I like someone i will give importance to you, to be with you , to get to know you... watch out for this trap... I have been there and I know that strategy.. don't fall in love with this guy he will only hurt you.. you deserve someone better ....
2006-06-17 17:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by pinky c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait see what happens if he is calling he is really in to u and u know he will be a good provider and u know that he isnt lazy b/c he is a workaholic that is hard to come by stick it out
2006-06-17 17:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Tina d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good at least he calls.....but just keep an eye for any changes in him...and pls don't trust him totally.....Do ask him out for a dated and see what he has to say....everybody must hv at least a day off in a month if he say he has to work......he could say that he's tried or what.. but try cooking for him and invite him for dinner...see how it goes
2006-06-17 19:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, if you really like him, you might as well try and see what happens between you two, you never know. All you have to lose is a little boy watching time.
2006-06-17 17:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by nothing_in_there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt move on because you will lose something good and just think if you date him think of all the money since he is a workaholic.and no offense to him.but thats true.and you should ask him to be ur bf because then you will probally havea good life because he likes you and you like him.so it might be romantic.i hope this helps.if you chose me as best answer just coment and tell me if it worked and if it didnt im very sorry!!!!
2006-06-17 17:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by SurferChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you like him! All good things are well worth the wait
2006-06-17 16:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he calls you at least he making some kind of effort i say wait alittle longer and see where it goes but also dont be afraid to met someone else
2006-06-17 16:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by KB86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋