i really like this guy and we have been friends since kindergarden i dont want to mess things up by telling him but at the same time i think he like me back....should i tell him???
2006-06-17 16:40:54 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hmmm... Tel him you THINK you like him se what happens. i guess
2006-06-17 16:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie w 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should. You needn't fear "messing things up" with him because you two have been friends for so long. He probably knows every idiosyncracy you have but to him you'll always smell of roses, so to speak. You will never know what's in his heart until you tell him yours. No venture no gain, girl. You have nothing to lose. If he likes you back, way to go. If he doesn't feel the same way, you can continue being friends the way you are now. No issues of embarassment, rejection, etc because he's your friend and he'll never let you feel uncomfortable. Once you know you'll be sure of where you stand and you can move on in your life.
2006-06-17 16:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by tashkent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all about doing stuff like that. I get a crush. Hang out with them lots. see if you really like the person. wait. waiting is key. When i was younger i'd jump the gun and tell the person, start dating them, decide I didn't really like them and then dump them. now i wait. Make good and sure. Tell them. If it doesn't work, oh well...... there will be hundreds more to like. If he's been your friend since Kinder, i'm sure it wont damage the friendship.
2006-06-17 16:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny Stench 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may mess things up, though if he is really your friend then he could just tell you that he isn't interested. Then your friendship shouldn't falter, that would be on you more than anything. Could you go on being his friend if he only thought of you as a sister? If not then don't say a thing...
2006-06-17 16:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Soelk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if for no other reason -resolution. If he's truly your friend-you can find the word for him to understand that you dont want to lose the friendship,but you've been having these feelings and needed to know.. I'm 30 years old and one of the things I think is "why didnt I just speak my feelings..without all the drama"
2006-06-17 16:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is okay to tell him, but first I would find out how he really feels about you, have one of your mutual friends ask him how he feels about you, without letting on that your the one that wanted to know, make sure it is someone that you can trust to give you honest answers back to your question
2006-06-17 16:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by dahorndogd013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to relize the full possible consequances of that action. The worse is if it doesn't work out, then you guys may not stay friends. Is it worth it? Do you feel that if it doesn't work out that you may be able to get pass the ackwardness to stay friends? Then if you decide to act on it, when you make your feelings known, make sure you disscuss those questions with him, to make sure he also understands the full consequences, so your guys can make the decsion together.
2006-06-17 16:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god yes! You really should. How else would he know. Who knows? Maybe he likes you, too. That has happened to me. I have been friends with my boyfriend, Tom, since we were born. As we got older, we started to like each other, but we were both afraid to tell each other. I asked my mutual friend, Jamie, to tell him for me, and we have been going out ever sinse. You really should tell him. But really, it would be embarassing to do it in person, i mean, just randomly coming up to him, saying, "I like you." I would not do that, it's really embarassing. But thats just me. So if you are really brave and outgoing and have alot of confidence, then go ahead, tell him in person. If you are the shy type, then ask one of your friends to tell him for you. Good luck! I really hope things work out for you!
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2006-06-17 16:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Vogue ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to run him off? No. If there are mutual feeling, then things will happen, watch the signs, you know.. body language, looks... Throw a tease, like... "if you ever need a girl friend, i could help you out.... Good luck.!.
2006-06-17 16:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by 4mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him. I think you should go into it with the attitude that even if doesn't feel the same you won't blemish the friendship. Since you have been friends this long.... he probably likes you too.
2006-06-17 16:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that u had a cute dream about him, but don't tell him. That way u'll gain his intrest, he'll want to know about the dream, so when he ask about the dream just smile and say "oh I can't tell until I get to know u better".
2006-06-17 16:44:02 · answer #11 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋