Family & Relationships - 12 June 2006

Me and my fiance have had the hardest time planning our wedding. For years I have promised my best friend that she could be my maid of honor when I got married.
However, my fiance has made it very clear that there is no way he could choose just one of his three brothers or friends to be his best man.
He thinks that we shouldn't have bridesmaids or groomsmen at our wedding, because he said that is like picking favorites, and he doesn't want to hurt anyones feeling.
There is no way I could have my dream wedding without bridesmaid or a maid of honor. It is just breaking tradition...
Any suggestions on how we can solve our problem????

2006-06-12 20:45:00 · 11 answers · asked by *Brooke28* 1 in Weddings

she said she fell out of love with me and the passion is gone. she has been talking to someone else but ended their friendship when i found out. she told me she cheated on me just to get a divorce but she swore she didn.t every time i talk to her its like i'm talking to a brick wall. when i do something romantic for her she says if you would have done this 4 months ago i would have cried. she says she loves me but not in love with me. all of a sudden it was like the snap of a finger she changed her mind oneday and was crazy about me, then the next day she said she wants a divorce. if you don't understand anything i wrote i'm sorry, their are alot of things going through my mind.

2006-06-12 20:44:14 · 15 answers · asked by DJA T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do women feel like they need to have sex with ever guy they date? Why do they feel the need to walk around in barly there clothing? Why do they have no sence if pride in themselfs? I think that any women who has had sex more then 3 times is a SLUT! People see sex as a fun thing and they just do it with anyone. Then they get knocked up and get married only to have it end. Marrage means nothing to people eather. I just don't understand, what happend to values? Why do we have 15 year old girls getting pregnant and the new age to get married is 16. I just wish the world would go back to how it use to be. I think TV is really what is wrong, EVERYTHING has to do with sex. They make it seem like its nothing. Even cartoons seem to promote it. I just don't understand anymore. What can I do to provent this? There has to be something I can do. Does anyone else feel this way?

? for girls who have had sex with more then 3 guys, WHY?

2006-06-12 20:43:14 · 9 answers · asked by dohm84 4 in Singles & Dating

attention from my loved one does it for me

2006-06-12 20:42:06 · 9 answers · asked by rekha c 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-12 20:42:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He's never gonna leave the wife, I'll never be with him. But how does one deal it if it's possible that soul mates exist?

Does any one have opinions or wanna share their knowledge of it?

And yes, we do love eachother.

2006-06-12 20:41:50 · 10 answers · asked by Jackie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-12 20:41:47 · 3 answers · asked by cfgfd d 1 in Singles & Dating

No one really know's for sure if the person they're talking to is telling the truth about anything including their sex, age, and/or physical appearance. For example I could say, I'm a 25 year old female with blonde hair blue eyes and a huge appetite for sex. No one would know the difference, and all the 12 year old boys would have a field day along with the priest who made the account. (P.S. I'm not a 25 year old female I'm a 21 year old male, most everything is the exact opposite except the sex thing)

2006-06-12 20:41:14 · 8 answers · asked by Aaron A 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-12 20:39:12 · 11 answers · asked by Zee99 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-12 20:39:07 · 20 answers · asked by azn_senorita_4_ever 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well there is this really hot italain at my school. And people only like him cause of his looks,his hair and that he is popular. I like him cause of his personality. Did I tell you that i'm movin away from him and i still like him. Also I think he likes me back but since he is popular and im not and i don't think he told anyone. Here is an example i was in a parade for being in volleyball and he was also in the parade cause he was in football and his friends asked me what was my name and then they told me that he liked me and then they went back to him. Well a couple monthes later i was at a dance and waiting for him to ask me too dance with him and then he finally did and then i put my hands on his shoulders and then he put one of his hands on my waist and then he saw another girl and hugged her and i almost started to cry. And I knew it was just a big plan cause the girl he hugged was laughin. I think he flirts with me alot 2. What should i do?? I don't know if he likes me or not.

2006-06-12 20:36:43 · 5 answers · asked by volleyballis4ever 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

details are too depressing.....

2006-06-12 20:35:11 · 4 answers · asked by Mad Max 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-12 20:34:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anything......i think mine are .........hopeless romantic, singing, looks...i know its shallow......but its all i got...haha

2006-06-12 20:33:53 · 20 answers · asked by playaninstrument 3 in Singles & Dating

why do guys say that they are looking for all these things in a girl but when it comes down to it they just want a hot body and no brains?...wouldnt it just be easier to be up front about it?

2006-06-12 20:32:48 · 9 answers · asked by toxic chick 2 in Singles & Dating

I am confused abt my life becuse with all these compromises i am sure i am not living my life,But if I take aBOld step of calling this marraige off..its going to affect my kid's life.I am not able to decide.Shud i just go ahead with my life making compromises like this so that My kid won't loose both of us.Or shud I take a bold step?..I am working,and am trying to meet all the expectaions of an Indian husband, in laws,of my kid,My office,friends..

2006-06-12 20:30:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she has dated her b/f for 9 months now and he is turnin 16, both sets of parents are trying to keep our eyes on them...but i want to be responsible about it I talk to her about the reason not to and even how to be safe if she decides to..but i was young once and i know how things go..soo any suggestions on how to handle this?

2006-06-12 20:27:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend says she trusts me because I will give her advice on what to do with her relationship problems instead of telling her what to do like everyone else. She's trying to get over an ex and claims to love him so much even though he hurts her emotionally everytime they get together, but she can't find anyone new to care about. She just took him back again. I know she's making a mistake and she's not listening to anyone. Should I tell her what is probably best for her and risk how our relationship is, or just let her find out for herself the hard way?

2006-06-12 20:26:54 · 14 answers · asked by whatsanubian37 1 in Friends

I was engaged to this guy, that I thought was wonderful but then after moving, with my two kids, two hours away from home and renting my house out, to be married, I found out that he had several other girlfriends. I guess I was either the stupid one or the favorite because I was the only one with a ring. Anyway, I am finding it very hard to date. I can't open up with anyone and I am totally afraid of being hurt like that again. It has been a year. Why can't I move past this? and How do I move past it?

2006-06-12 20:25:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm almost 19. My mom starts the biggest arguments with me even when I'm talking to regular friends on the phone and says I shouldn't be doing that at all. She doesn't know that I have a boyfriend and I'm afraid to tell her knowing how she reacted a few months ago when I told her that him and I were friends. How can I make her realize that he's not going anywhere???

2006-06-12 20:22:36 · 17 answers · asked by imagine4evainluv1987 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-12 20:22:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-06-12 20:18:10 · 12 answers · asked by Shamrok 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 26 male

2006-06-12 20:15:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-12 20:13:16 · 9 answers · asked by mud 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-12 20:12:33 · 11 answers · asked by jingirl 1 in Family

i met him at a new years eve party. he was kindda buzz but the way we dance and how held me i fell for him. we didn't exhange # n i never thought i see him agian but through connection my friend got his # n had him call me. we talk for 2 day then stop. valentine day come and he emailed me. we started talkin and he came down to my town on sat. we hung out throughout the nite after.what happen this night and the next day was unexpected, i just thought i was gonna hang with him like a friend b/c we tlak like fiends. but somehow we ended pekin on the cheeks and lips. ended holding hands and he held me i nhis arms...it sounds stupid now but at the time i felt so love. how he held me in the movies and how he would call me everynight. then all a sudden, it stop. i was hurt but i learned to move on. however he's movin 2 my town for college andi know for sure i will see him. i email him tellin him thati still respect him n tha we shuld still b frend. he hvnt emal me bck. wha up n wat suld i do?

2006-06-12 20:10:26 · 5 answers · asked by SMILES 2 in Singles & Dating

Christian-in my 20's-5'9"-206lbs-in college-br hair and eyes.sarcastic sense of humor but not mean-shy. //Just curious as I've only had one girlfriend and I'm wondering if I need to be more outgoing about it or maybe one of these stats is disqualifying me before I even open my mouth

2006-06-12 20:10:10 · 22 answers · asked by Gatlas 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-12 20:06:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im really gonna miss my friends and I dont know how im gonna make new ones this is really freaking me out and finding out that I had to move was so sudden how to I get used to it?

2006-06-12 20:06:27 · 2 answers · asked by Cassie 2 in Friends

My ex of 3 years burned me pretty bad (lied to me, everything) and I'm finally over him and seeing someone else, but I'm finding hard to trust him fully. I'm always doubting him, although he's given me no cause to, I really like him, how to I forget the past before I push him away?

2006-06-12 20:04:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating