I'm almost 19. My mom starts the biggest arguments with me even when I'm talking to regular friends on the phone and says I shouldn't be doing that at all. She doesn't know that I have a boyfriend and I'm afraid to tell her knowing how she reacted a few months ago when I told her that him and I were friends. How can I make her realize that he's not going anywhere???
2006-06-12 20:22:36 · 17 answers · asked by imagine4evainluv1987 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Believe me..mother knows best..she's just protecting you..maybe she experienced bad things before that made her worry about your situation right now...just be honest with her..show her that your guy is trustworthy...etc..you know sometimes mothers act panicky and overreacting over things....just be patient and nice with her..she'll soon let you have your bf anyway...
2006-06-12 20:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by againstgoodygoody! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is time to get a job and find a place to move. Even if it means rooming with somebody. My daughters were all out by the time they were 18. By choice as I would have loved to have them longer. Your mom is being overprotective and she loves you.......but you have to learn about life from your own mistakes...... good or bad that is the only way you will grow up and mature and be able to deal with life as it comes at you.
2006-06-13 03:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by deborah p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can proceed for dating. But u hve to remember one point, Dont take ur mom restriction as negative one, she is saying on a protection base. So, hve a careful date.
2006-06-13 03:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by raventrick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally you are a consenting adult, so you are free to do what you wish to do. I guess it all comes down to family loyalty, is it really worth the fighting with the parents over. But then again honesty is the best policy.
2006-06-13 03:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by princedeej30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow the hell up... get a job and an apartment and be an adult. By the look of you picture, I am sure your mom's got legitimate fears about your actions.
2006-06-14 18:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by Aunt Mair á?¦ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move out
2006-06-13 03:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now you are major. You can take your decisions. If you think you are right, keep them in front of your parents with convictin. Afterall they are your parents. I think your mother would get the message.
2006-06-13 03:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by sbbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some parents won't realize the seriousness of things until you leave..move out..
2006-06-13 03:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by drama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to her honestly, tell her what ur feeling and what u would like to change or what she can do, make sure she is really listening, if u think u will forget points, write them down!
2006-06-13 03:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they just want to protect you from bad people, but there not doing it in the right way. you need to talk to them and tell them your feeling. maybe you can meet in the middle, so both party's are happy.
2006-06-13 03:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by wizard85306 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋