Family & Relationships - 12 June 2006

2006-06-12 09:15:30 · 9 answers · asked by janet m 2 in Family

Some say wives have made husbands lazy by complaining, some say husbands have made wives malcontent by their way of doing things. Regardless of the nature of the relationship (whethere straight or gay), should one of the couple carry the bulk of the chores or would a shared load be best?

Who should do what?

I read in MacLean's magazine about this guy who took his daughter to the vet instead of the hospital to have a possible broken bone checked out (to avoid slow hospital service). I think he was being practical and rational, others think irresponsible.

(come on, bone's in dogs and humans are just the same, an x-ray is an x-ray)

What do you think?

2006-06-12 09:15:25 · 6 answers · asked by flammable 5 in Family

in a criticalconditiond.
Dont rape means the same thing as having sex many times

2006-06-12 09:14:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im married for a year now, but , the relationship is almost singking. bec. of my jealousy.. i do love my husband so much. but he's having attitude too. kindly help!

2006-06-12 09:13:52 · 31 answers · asked by jempok 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I used to be a very selfish person. I could never for anyone else. But when I fell in love, truly in love for the first time, all I can think about is her. She is the reason why I try to act morally; because she deserves a good person (whether it's me or not).

2006-06-12 09:13:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should not even talk, so he is mad, i live 3.5 hours away from them and she comes and visit i told him that i pay the bills in my house and i can have anybody over that i want, he cheated on her and she retaliated by trying to get him arrested over a car that he owned and she put the car in her name for him, after the break up she wanted her tags, and he refused so she decided to call the police. however she was hurt, and her feeling took over she was thinking with her heart and not her head. It was his actions, that cause her to react like that. Overall she still loves him, and regrets what she has done, but she is a very sweet girl. He is very upset with her because he could have been arrested, I said coulda, woulda, shoulda, we can't live our lives on that, and i told him to grow up.

2006-06-12 09:12:28 · 9 answers · asked by Lorraine W 3 in Friends

I caught my husband cheating last summer while I was traveling for my job. She was the single mother of a child my husband coached in little league. She burned up his cell phone day and night leaving messages I could not repeat in public as recently as February. Her son is not playing little league this year; however, she is showing up at the ball park frequently (now with her fiance of 2 months). I have maintained myself at the ball park but I really want to speak my peace and get it out of my system. Any ideas......?

2006-06-12 09:12:24 · 20 answers · asked by n b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After three weeks of separation, it has been two weeks since my husband came back home. There have been no fights but there still is a huge wall between us. At this point, I still do not know where we are going with our relationship (if anywhere). I have tried talking to him and he just shuts me out. I have been trying to be patient and trying to give him space however, I have no idea where our relationship is going. He has refused therapy. How much time should I give him to decide what he wants and speak up?

2006-06-12 09:11:55 · 25 answers · asked by vaguestnebula 1 in Marriage & Divorce

who was absolutely good looking on the outside and then once you got to know him/her, they became "ugly" because of their actions - I mean you wouldn't even be able to look at them and say they "looked good" because their inside came to surface. And at the same time, vice versa????? What was your situation?

2006-06-12 09:11:51 · 9 answers · asked by butterfliesRfree 7 in Friends

Whats 1st base 2nd base 3rd base and home run? is homerun like sex or is it like being in love? I'm not sure where me and bf stand so im just curious thanks for the help =]

2006-06-12 09:10:48 · 2 answers · asked by [!!!_sauceyknowsbest__] 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I'm dating this guy & we're getting pretty serious. Even talking about long-term. He's a wonderful guy & treats me like I'm a princess. So, what's the problem? It's is soon to be ex wife who calls him constantly for help. She cannot do anything - ANYTING - on her own, and he goes running EVERY time she calls. He says he feels sorry for her because she's not independent like me, so he keeps helping her. I tell him that she's not a child and she needs to learn to handle life on her own. For example, she needed to call an electrician out for an electrical problem - HE had to handle it. She can't pick up the phone and make a phone call? HOW do I handle this - I am NOT the needy type and she is driving me nuts. I find myself getting irritated at him for being her support when in my opinion; he needs to let her LEARN to make it on her own? HOW do I handle this, do I swallow it and not say anything? I'm just not used to needy and weak and she TOTALLY is both...it makes me nuts...HELP

2006-06-12 09:10:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have contact everyone in the law enforcement and they tell me she has to report it because she is an adult. But I think she is afraid to get out of the relationship.

2006-06-12 09:10:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend who I have been friends with for about 12 yrs or more is married and has been for about 4 yrs. She constantly cheats on her husband and over the weekend she took me with her to meet this guy she was going to hook up. When the guy find out she was married he didn't want any thing to do with her and ended up giving me his number and telling me we need to hang out together so I should call him. Though on the way home my friend kept talking about how much she likes him but doesn't wanna separate from her husband. I really wanna call this guy and hang out with him but my friend likes him. So my question is should I call him or not. I really want to call him because I don't see how my friend can claim a guy if she is already married.

2006-06-12 09:09:58 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I am going out with this guy and we do not talk very much. So yesterday I was txtin one of my friends and he asked me if I would ever go out with him. So I told him that I don't know. So all my friends have asked me if I like him and if I would go out with him. I have been very upset because both ways it will hurt someone. I want to go out with him though. I would tell him yes but my best firiend likes him and I haven't told her about it yet. So she would be very mad @ me. So what am I supposed to do go out with this guy and let my best friend be mad @ me or do not go out with him and let all my other friends down? Plz help

2006-06-12 09:08:50 · 3 answers · asked by ~*Kt*~ 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-12 09:08:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend and I are having an agrument i say it is ok if your boyfriend thinks another gurls hot, she thinks its not!

2006-06-12 09:08:02 · 15 answers · asked by Flafibopsicles 3 in Singles & Dating

Tell me how you REALLY feel?

2006-06-12 09:07:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have actually asked this question in conversations and in case study interviews (women between the ages of 18 to 50). Some of the most common answers were the following: A cute Butt, stimulating eye color, dazzling smile, muscular body, wonderful kissing lips, sexual stamina, height, attractive biceps, and penis size. Although penis size was mentioned it was stated mostly by women who have been with men of different sizes and have already decided they’re preferred size. Also the higher the age category, the more defined the actual changes were stated. If possible could you state your age with your answer for study purposes. What would you change?

2006-06-12 09:06:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi,

People!!

I'm so happy these days, met a wonderful girl who means so much to me, I treat her like a princess and try to do my best by her she says that no one has ever been this nice to her and it just doesn't feel right!!??

I was about to ask her to move in with me, when one of my friends said he had found out that her last boyfriend used to beat her up and knocked all the confidence out of her, I'm so angry I could break his teeth!! if I knew who he was that is!!

I know it will get me nowhere, what would you reccommend I do, here? Want her to know that I love her and will do anything for her!!

Should I ask to move in with me?
How can I assure her I will never harm her?
Show her I love so much that she should not be scared?

Thanks for reading...

Cheers!!

2006-06-12 09:05:02 · 31 answers · asked by East Bay Punk 4 in Singles & Dating

I am so confidant in any situation especially talking to women. I have no problem and plenty of confidence to talk any woman but when it comes to my x all my self confidence goes down the drain i dont know why is that
does anyone have any advice on my situation
i really want to build my self confidence to stand up
thanks

2006-06-12 09:04:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this boy, but he's not allowed to date until 2 months from now. i told him that i like him, and me & him have been really good friends this past year. I told him i liked him, but i didn't ask him out bcuz i respect his parents wishes. he said "okay" is that good or bad? does he like me or not?

2006-06-12 09:04:23 · 8 answers · asked by Kristy 1 in Singles & Dating

How come they dont want a nice guy?

2006-06-12 09:04:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-12 09:04:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-12 09:03:32 · 9 answers · asked by j_montgomery_50 2 in Weddings

I am doing some research for two very dear friends of mine who are having a difficult time. I recommended that they seek counseling, and they said “ok, so who do we call?” I found that I had my stock “seek counseling” advice and little more of substance to offer. I’d like to make some recommendations to them, but I don’t know how to sort out a qualified form an unqualified councilor. What I think they need (not that I have a clue, I mean I’m a carpenter! What do I know?) is a mediator. Someone who can facilitate open discussion. Their paths have clearly diverged, now I think they need to figure out whether or not they are possibly going to link back up, or at least run parallel in the future. Thank you in advance for your help.

2006-06-12 09:01:58 · 7 answers · asked by perfecttiming1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I each have seperate houses that we live in while we are working or whatever. When we are on off-time, we live in our house that we own together. We love each other like you would not believe and have two young children (one is not biologically his). The problem is whenever we are apart we hear **** about eachother and it causes fights. We know it's not true, but we still acknowledge it!!! Should we all just move in together all the time so there is no more 'rumors' to address??

2006-06-12 09:01:54 · 35 answers · asked by FASHIONISTAMOM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-12 09:01:51 · 12 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

We got scared abt me getting pregnant. Then i had taken a morning after pill within 2 hours after sex. Will i get pregnant ? My periods got over yesterday.

2006-06-12 09:01:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well today wuz field day and i finally decided to get my shirt signed by this guy i like. well my friend likes him also and she asked him to sign her shirt and he did. then i was asking her for the marker so i could ask him and she wouldn't give it to me. i begged her and by the time i got there, he was gone. i realy like him and today was the last day of field day. and to make it worse he's going 2 a different skool next year so im not gonna get to see him anymore.=( what should i do??

2006-06-12 09:01:23 · 6 answers · asked by [blahh] ™ 5 in Friends

who would you like to do IT with? what kindof girl would you prefer to do IT with? ( IT meaning sex)

2006-06-12 09:00:19 · 11 answers · asked by Jesus freak! 2 in Singles & Dating