My friend and I are having an agrument i say it is ok if your boyfriend thinks another gurls hot, she thinks its not!
2006-06-12 09:08:02 · 15 answers · asked by Flafibopsicles 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love isn't blind. Of course he is going to think there are other girls that are "hot" (a rather derogatory term, but whatever.) Just like you look around and think the same of other guys. It is what you DO (or, more importantly DON'T do) with those thoughts.
2006-06-12 09:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal to look and have opinions as long as he doesnt act on them. i say it is disrespectful for a man when in a relationship with someone to comment on another women like that but all in all its healthy to be honest about everything too as long as he doesnt flirt or give u reason to think he would act on it id say its perfectly alright but some men are dogs and have no respect so be careful
2006-06-12 16:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by ford_lovergirl_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of yourse it's okay, to be someone's boyfriend/fiance/husband doesn't mean you're blind, deaf and dumb.
To me, it's normal when my husband says another woman's hot. He's still with me and with no other, which means I'm hotter, or anyways somehow better. :)
That's what I tell myself, and I look at other men, too - just look.
2006-06-12 16:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would lie and tell you its okay if he looked @ another and say shes hot to get your ten points but honestly no i would go crazy if he says that he thinks that another gurl is hot cuz deep inside my mind i'll be thinkiin' okay who do he think is hotter me or her?
what if she likes him too,maybe they go togther or they'll be friends then who knows maybe he'll love her and break up with me
im tellin' you its stupid but thats da sounds in my lil head not me
thanks for da points
2006-06-12 16:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain it to her this way. You know that he and you are committed to one another and that its okey by you if he appreciates another womans beauty. If she still doesnt understand then feel sorry for her as she has never felt or had a relationship of trust and honesty.
2006-06-12 16:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by wireland2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fine for him to think another gurls hot! its his brain he just better not ask her out tho!
2006-06-12 20:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by georgia_peach_gurrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh srry to break tha news to ya baby doll but that is not right that he thinks another chick is hott, yea he can look but he betta not talk and he betta not forget that he still go with yo friend......and he betta remember whos legs he gotta get between and who got tha good sh_it
2006-06-12 16:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it would be unnatural for men, or women not to admire human beauty.... but I do NOT think it is OK for them to rub it in your face. ie:; comment on it in a rude way or whistle or flirt.
2006-06-12 16:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by piawom420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is ok - as long he doesn't do anything. Don't YOU think other guys are still hot????? Your in a realtionship not dead.
2006-06-12 16:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by SingleHotMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow wierd world im dating a chick so magically not other girl on earth is hot...... your friend has no clue
2006-06-12 16:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by lztexan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋