I am so confidant in any situation especially talking to women. I have no problem and plenty of confidence to talk any woman but when it comes to my x all my self confidence goes down the drain i dont know why is that
does anyone have any advice on my situation
i really want to build my self confidence to stand up
thanks
2006-06-12 09:04:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why? Why torture yourself? Forget her, and move on, it is her loss.
2006-06-12 09:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to anyone who tells you not to talk to her or that X is an X for a reason. They don't know what they are talking about, they don't know what love is..I encourage you 200% to talk to this person. You will deeply regret it if you don't. I believe that this girl was special since she brings out a different side of yourself. The only thing you can do is ONCE you find a little bit of confidence just pick up the phone and call her. Remember this, I always tell everyone, "All the things I thought I'd regret doing are the things I regret not doing!" Maybe she is waiting for you to call her RIGHT this SECOND. WHY waste time when there are so many opportunities?Maybe she is like me and she wants to talk to her X so bad but doesn't have the courage and is keeping her feelings to herself. Why always wonder?
2006-06-12 16:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she hurt you. Maybe you feel inferior to her. The reason doesn't matter. What matters is that you realize that it is over. You've moved on. You don't need her. You don't care what she thinks about you. You're doing good now that she's gone. Remember that. Think about it the next time you try to talk to her. Remember that she is not better than you. You don't have to be afraid of her. You are an independent person.
2006-06-12 16:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by SteffyAnne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must have somehow destroyed your self-confidence to begin wtih. Show her just how confident you really are.....the next time you see her, stand tall, and if you have something to say to her, talk to her the way you talk to all the other women you feel comfortable around. What could it hurt?
2006-06-12 16:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See I have a problem doing a lot of things, Im very shy and soft spoken. I will get nervous over simple things. I just have to ask myself what is the worst thing that can happen? And usually the answer is nothing bad can happen. Also get your friend to psych you up.
2006-06-12 16:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hay why should you have to talk to your ex because if its over why go backwards. You need to move forward unless you have to talk to her because you work with her or etc then you should talk just try to pretend as if nothing has ever happened between you and her.
2006-06-12 16:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by priceless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C a doctor OR ask another room
2006-06-12 16:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by ANUBIS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and pretend like your too busy and your in job tryin' to call somebody else tell her that your sorry and it was a nice to hear her voice (dont forget to pretned that you didnt know who you are talkin' with then tell her oh my god its ***your x name ***
if you didnt like my 1st idea ,lsn to this be honest send her flowers and write her anote tellin' her how much you missed her
2006-06-12 16:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing to it but to do it...just chill out say what you gotta say...you had enough confidence to talk to her before she became your X right??? you're good just remember who you are...
2006-06-12 16:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by *steelers* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well act as if the person that you are talking to is her and you should be fine Good luck
2006-06-12 16:07:30 · answer #10 · answered by annabello726652003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋