My oldest son has a wonderful, gullible, innocent, beautiful, girlfriend......and he is cheating on her. I know this as fact, as I became very close to his former girlfirend, who happens to be the person he is cheating with. Further, he just lost his job and she (the girlfriend) is paying his car payment, all the bills, etc. while he is looking for a new job. My stance; which I have made known to my sons many times is this: I am a woman first and a mother second.
Do I tell?
I think I do.
Does it make me a meddling mother, or an honest person who does what she thinks is the right thing to do?
My son will certainly resent me, and it will put a definate rift in our relationship, however, I feel very strongly about what he is doing to this young lady, and the guilt of knowing about it is making me ill. I have talked with him at length about it, to no avail. I simply think right is right, and although he wasn't raised to be this kind of young man, and I certainly did not model this type
2007-12-02
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