To me, that phrase is insulting.
I'm considered skinny by some at 5"6/110 lbs. Because I don't have "curves", does this mean I am a transexual in women's clothing? Aren't some "curves" mostly shaped by bones? E.g. slightly wider hip bones + a small tummy can give one a curvy shape!
And just because my boobs are a size B not D, does that mean I am not womanly enough? At what size or level of "curviness" exactly does a girl become "WOMANLY"? And when did fat become the sole sign of womanliness?
Isn't that phrase a way to make big girls feel better by putting skinny people down? Why can't we all be more confident about ourselves without stepping over other people's confidence?
Why can't people agree both skinny AND big girls can be sexy? It doesn't have to be one way or the other. I don't know why a guy has to be "brainwashed by the media" because he likes a skinny girl.
So, I know the quote is a confidence booster to some but is it really fair to use?
Thanks.
2006-08-22
03:08:02
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