After 4 years, my boyfriend lives two lives between myself and his 2 teen daughters. When they are with him, I am not allowed to even show my face. If I call, he cuts me short. Granted, their mother is a freak and 2 years ago he spent $30,000 in legal fees to regain partial custody when she convinced the girls to stop visiting him. Because of all that, he fears that their mother's hate for me will convince the girls to shun him again if I'm ever around. Although he insists that he loves me, I think that this is baloney and an excuse to not have to further commit to me. When I ask him to talk to his children about me, he says that they say that they are happy without me around and that he will not force them to change their minds. This angers me, as I know that not too far in the future, these kids are going to have boyfriends of their own, yet because of them I am not able to have a normal relationship with MY boyfriend. Except for this, we are great together. I need some help
2007-11-26
02:01:55
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