We've been married 18 yrs, he's cheated on me, and expects me to accept him having a female best friend? What's more is that it happens to be someone I went to high school with. I have intercepted some of their phone calls and emails, and it's all still a huge secret. Yet, I'm supposed to accept them being together every wednesday night. and other times when conveinent. I know my marriage is over, and cant flip a switch ater 25 yrs together (18 married). He knows it hurts me, and bothers me for him to be with her, but he doesnt seem to care and does it anyway. I think he is lying to himself. that they arent just friends. It's showing in his actions to be alot more. This is fun to explain to our 15 yr old son too. I am at wits end, I've hit rock bottom. Neither him or I have gotten a job since may, but I've been trying alot, and then came down with pinched nerve in back down my leg, and cant represent myself in an interview very good. I'm so stuck. we are both in mid 40's.
2007-10-03
03:17:03
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queenlionus
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Marriage & Divorce