Ok so here’s the thing, I just found out my husband has been cheating on me with a girl he works with. He says he has ended it and doesn’t want anything to do with her anymore and that he has told her that on a couple of occasions. He has repeated to me over and over again that he is sorry but it’s hard to believe him after all the lies he has told me. Well anyways, this girl is repeatedly putting things on her myspace profile about their relationship to include a picture she took with him. He told me that he told her to stop doing that because its hurting me and our relationship. I know she is not going to give up so easily and she will continue to harass me and go after him. While I no longer go into her profile to see what she is putting because this was hurting me, I know that other people are seeing what she’s putting and this is embarrassing to me. Last week I was almost positive she called the house to talk to him even though my husband told me it wasn’t her because he had just talked to her again that day about leaving us alone. I have already told my husband to quit his job but he doesn’t want to because of the money. We live in an area where unemployment is high and he wouldn’t make what he makes now anywhere else and we have a lot of bills. He says he is waiting to pass certain exams to work for the INS and then he is out of there. So in the mean time, what should I do? Is there a way I can get her fired? I have gotten a person fired from work before because of the shady things this person was doing but I don’t know what I can pin on this girl since I don’t work there. Is fraternizing illegal? Could I accuse her with their boss of harassing us? I need this girl out of our lives for good without getting my husband fired!
2007-09-24
06:20:37
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alexn
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Marriage & Divorce