My husband and I have a 3 year old son. We are good parents who have specific, thoroughly - researched guidelines for how we want him to be raised. Certain members of his family, however (especially his wonderful sister), offer us unwanted "advice" constantly. It's not really advice, so much as it's constant judging and criticism of EVERYTHING - how we dress him and cut his hair, what we feed (and don't feed) him, how we want to educate him, discipline, safety precautions, etc. We are GOOD parents who wouldn't do anything we didn't think was right for our son, but we are still judged on most of the things we do. Here's the thing - while she's worked with kids for a few years, she has none of her own. Hubby blew up at her tonight, which really caused some family tension. I didn't want to get involved, but I agree with Hubby. It's disheartening to get this constant criticism. I want to be the peacemaker, but explain to her how we feel so she'll understand. Any suggestions?
2007-09-15
12:05:41
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SoBox
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