i am chander and belongs to a hindu family, i love a muslim girl and she also loves me very much, our relationship is from last six months and now we have
come very close to each other, i live in delhi and she lives in srinagar and we uses to talk each other daily on phone. we have just got 2 lucky days to see each other last week when i was in srinagar for our darshan to sri amarnath ji. our family know each other from last 20 years, my grandfather and her can say grandfather our very good frends. on those lucky days we did'nt get to even talk each other, my grandfather had kept an eye on us. the 2 aunties of her know our relationship from the begining and they do not have any objection in getting us maried, but in april there was an talk of my marriages with any other girl in our religion, and at that time i refuses that told about that my love girl. on that day i ony told that i only love her and she did'nt know anything know about that, on this my parents raised objection saying this that they are muslim and this can not happen. When i told all this matter to my love she said all this to those 2 aunties, on this they got defensive and now they also that this can not happen beacause of the same reason.
now i have explained all this 2 my mother and she also says this ki only matter is the religion problem. if my grandfather accept than there are chances of getting us married, and there is one fear in my mind if her parents forcen her to marry some other in their religion, i know that she will not marry anyone else and same is the case with me. we love each very much we cant even think of any other girl or boy now.
please advice us how can we convince our parents for our marriage. after seeing each other on those 2 lucky days we know how we are living in these 2 different places, please advice us on how we make them convince.......plzzzzzz we are getting mad we cant live without each other....plzzzz advice us
2007-08-31
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