The guy used to be a college teacher of mine, a few years older than me. Many years back in college, I prayed with him for his dad. After that prayer, I felt compelled to invite him to my church, but I never did. I now have befriended him just within the past year and a half. We are both working on a project together with some other people. The truth is though, my mom, likes to social dance as well as myself and wanted to invite him to a social dance. So she asked me if I could ask him only because she thought it may seem weird inviting him since she is older. After he turned down the offer, I didn't realize till later he probably thought I was asking him out on a date. When I realized it, I felt so grieved within me because I have never asked a guy out in my life. I don't ask guys out because I feel that real gentleman pursue the ladies. So for this to happen, all of a sudden I felt like I was belittling myself. This event took place last November-ish, but since then I’ve noticed our unique relationship has had a different feel ever since. I still wish I could ask him to my church though, which was my original desire for many years. But I have a feeling he may think I’m trying to ask him out. What should I do?
2007-08-18
21:58:20
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Lasorna
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