Ok, I know of course that it takes two to tango, in order to get pregnant in the first place. But when it comes down to it, in our society today is it really up to the woman if a couple experiencing an unplanned pregnancy has a baby? My long term relationship has ended over my unplanned pregnancy recently (i am 35 weeks along). My ex has since pointed out how unfair it is to be a guy in this situation because when it comes down to it, its really all the womans decision in the end, and how that just doesnt seem right since the child is half his. In an odd way, I can totally see where he's coming from (though im not letting that alter my decision on what to do about this baby, which is keep her and love her with all that I have, and get out of this relationship asap). in a twisted way, does anyone else see how this could be "unfair" for a guy?
(she gets to chose to raise the baby, abort it or hate it put up for adoption)
2007-08-17
17:44:27
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