Please help? I need words of wisdom. Should I open up to my boss?

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Question Details: This summer I am an intern at this place and it turns out that I'm not qualified to do a lot of the things that they gave me. My confidence went down the drain. I made mistakes here and there. My boss and the rest of them think I am an complete idiot. My boss seemed very nice sometimes and other times, he ignored me, and couldn't stand me. I felt unintelligent. I know I am not. They are very knowledgeable and quick learners. Not me. I just need the right words to tell them how I feel. I just couldn't relate to them because our weaknesses and strengths are different. Is it bad if i end up crying? I usually do. Emotions too intense. I felt like I didn't fit in with them. There were times when I wanted to open up, but I couldn't. Something restricted me. THIS IS MY LAST CHANCE TO TALK TO HIM. I think he is the type of guy who doesn't give a **** about my feelings. But I AM NOT SURE. Is it worth it. I am tired of feeling like an outsider ALL OF MY LIFE. I don't want to e

Answer 1

Ask yourself this question: what's the worst thing that could happen if you did share your feelings? Sounds like you know this is not the place for you. You need to focus on what you need to regain your confidence. Sometimes that is taking a stand for yourself. The very successful at anything have confidence. If sharing your feelings and risking being put down only draws you lower...don't share. Otherwise, let it out and move on.

Answer 2

Well you shouldn't give a **** if he cares either! Tell him exactly how you feel! Don't go in there though with everything planned out and where you know exactly what you are going to say. Then it won't sound real. If you have strong emotions about this then you will be fine! Just go tell him asap and cry if the tears come out! Don't let people put you down or make you feel low. Your better than that! We are all equal and deserve respect. You will be fine :)

Answer 3

I know how you feel. It's best if you tell him how you feel. I would suggest talking to him in private of course, and tell him that you have tried your best and above all be honest with your feelings. You will feel better and feel relieved after you do this. You shouldn't let your confidence go down because of this even though it's hard when you feel like you've made many mistakes and everyone is looking at you funny. Remain Strong. I wish you the best.

Answer 4

Well, if you don't know how to do what they tell you, YOU NEED TO ASK. You're there as an INTERN, which means you are learning what the job is. I'm supposing you are not getting paid, or at least not much. So, ask LOTS OF QUESTIONS!

I know what being overwhelmed is like in a job. I wish I could of asked questiones more easily.

Just be sure you ask lots hows and whats...Find somebody to tag along with. That's how I managed.

Answer 5

first of all - dont let them see you cry at work...try to hold it until you are alone in your car or at home or on your way home.

I think it would be good to talk to your boss --but not about your feelings.....thank him for the opportunities he has given you and let him know that you are trying hard to learn as much as you can as fast as you can. Let him know you enjoy working there and that you are grateful for the skills and knowedge that you are learning on the job.

keep emotions and feelings out of it...and do not cry in his office.

good luck ♥

Answer 6

absolutelyy.