I fight with my live-in GF all the time. Lately no fighting cuz I gave up, we dont fight or talk, nothing between us anymore, I hoped she would change her ways (spending way toooooo much money, spoiling her 5 yr old son rotten, working too many hours, screaming at the kids, very possesive and controlling of me). I am not allowed to have friends or talk to them. I have devoted my life 100% to her for over a year and got nothing in return. We are in counseling now, not going well.She has many issues (fear of abandonement, jealousy, she was raped by her dad for years when she was a teenager, etc.) I love her, but I cant fix her, and this relationship completely drains me, I do it all, and she takes it all. She wants to make another baby, that she cant afford to have too. We are so broke, all from her. Is love enuf, or do I need more than that? I hatre to disrupt our family, but dont I deserve to be happy too? Everything is all for her, nobody else, not even the kids.
2007-07-13
21:13:09
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