I'm married to a pakistani and I've noticed pakistani people dislike girls. I have three girls and they really look down on me for not having a boy. when you give birth to a girl no one even congratulates you, infact they commisserate you. I'm pregnant again and the pressure is on for me to give birth to a boy, if I have another girl they are going to hate me even more. Even my husband wants a boy this time and he said if we have a girl again he doesn't know what he'll do. I dont know what I'm having as I'm only 5 weeks pregnant but I feel so stressed out and I keep dreaming that I'm having a girl and I wake up feeling so anxious. I love girls and to me all that matters is that you have a healthy baby but I feel so stressed out and worried, I just want a boy so that they get off my case!
2007-06-25
03:23:27
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