My heart went out to you when I read your question. You deleted it, so I couldn't answer you. My dad did the same thing with my mom. He manipulated my sisters & I into not wanting to see her, while he was sending her nastygrams. He would tell us that she wanted to seperate us, or to "steal" us away from everyone.
I resent & sometimes hate my dad for what he did. Eventually we saw her again when she came to visit us. My dad stopped being an *ss when he found someone else.
My advice to you is to continue trying to talk to your daughter. Try to go down to see her. Make the visits through your mom/bro, since you do not want to have contact with your ex.
Don't force her. If you do, you run the risk of pushing her away from you, as well as giving your ex the chance to say more horrible things about you.
KEEP THE VOICE MESSAGES & CONTACTS THAT HE'S SENT YOU! You may need it for a legal battle, as well as proof later for your daughter.
Don't give up. I believe that you can make it work.
2007-06-12
04:30:13
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Marriage & Divorce