My wife of 18 years has cheated on me in the past and had certain behavior patterns during those times when as she put it "it was just a kiss", we separated 4 years ago when I caught her in the coffee shop with a man having breakfast, after a 8 hours in jail for disorderly conduct she left the house and 4 months later we were back together, it was pretty good until I started to detect the same behavior 3 months ago, so I left now I miss her (i must be sick) and I keep calling her,before i left she was explosive when i would question her as to why she is witholding love. She in fact had called me a control freak for 15 years but she tuned the tables when she left 4 years ago. when she came home I was kissing *** bigtime and she would "control" me or I should say she would display her power over me by withholding any affection. she uses this because she knows it tortures me. She still waers her ring, but she said dont bring flowers to my work anymore.she says we need to go slow.
2007-05-31
19:13:25
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