2007-05-31 19:09:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Actually, this is something I am trying to work on. After four years of not speaking to my stepmom after my dads death, I called her......just to let go of the hate and bad feelings I have always held on to. Long story why I felt that way but the point is I stopped holding a grudge. I used to hold them for years when someone really hurt me but now, I am more forgiving.
2007-05-31 19:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Evil Ejade 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get mad all the time for stupid people p!ssing me off, but I can say I only hold a grudge on one person. It's been 2 years and the grudge will live until I die.
2007-06-01 02:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by T_BIRD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the times, but some people make grudging easy.
2007-06-01 10:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, and if I start to lose my grudge I just merely think about what was mad about in the first place and it kicks back in full fledged, whether I want it to or not (and I usually don't). I hate that about myself, it takes me forever to get over the smallest things. Call me the queen of grudges.
2007-06-01 02:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by sheba 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't bother holding grudges anymore as I'm the only one who suffers from it. It's much easier to forgive, let go and move on. Grudges can make u sick.
God bless u,
Daniel
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2007-06-01 02:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Third Day 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the person has crossed what I consider "the line" holding a grudge is no problem...then I either have to thrash'em or talk myself down...pisses me off when others try to talk me down. Usually I let things slide, but there's always seems to be one that has to be difficult and won't shut their mouths..then something has to be done.
2007-06-01 02:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by G=ME 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who it is. I usually hold the grudge for about a day.
2007-06-01 02:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have always been one to hold a grudge, I'm very good at it, but as I've gotten older I've realized it's just a waste of time. no one is worth that kind of aggravation
2007-06-01 03:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by Random Knowledge 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately I find it hard to release the grudge once I have one on someone. a poor quality to have. I don't want to put grudges on people
2007-06-01 02:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by LanternPrime 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can hold a grudge for days...years actually. my mom moved me and my sisters while i was in high school. then she did it again. so i went to 3 different high schools...i'm gonna hold that grudge forever.
2007-06-01 02:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋