Been together off an on for about 9 years now. In the day, I work a white collar job at an investment firm, making really good money. At night, even before I met her, I guest bartend and sometimes maitre'd at 5 'gentlemen's clubs' around the city. I like bartending, in particular at these types of places if you know what I mean, its not for money. Anyway, after a long day of work at both jobs, i sometimes need to unwind a bit before coming home, so sometimes it gets pretty late. She suspects, rightfully so, that sometimes I 'play' at work, but she cannot prove it, so in my mind, it 'never happened' in her mind, at least that's how she should see it. I don't question her about what she does while I'm out, so I don't think she should question me. How can I make her feel more secure and back off a bit?
2007-05-04
12:34:56
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