I have a friend that I had a relationship with for about 9 months or so... as time went on, I realized I wasn't feeling the same way that he did. So I broke it off. Found out later on that he had been seeing someone else at the same time, which crushed me. I didn't talk to him for over a year. And then I happened upon one of his blogs, where he was saying that he really needed a friend to talk to... mentioned me specifically. I didn't do anything, but rant about it on my own blog. Then he messaged me. Now it seems we are back to being friends... but the question is... should I just forgive and forget everything that happened? I won't deny I played a part in it. But the relationship became an obsession to me... to both of us perhaps. And I'm seeing the same thing happening again. He's with soemone else right now, and I'm friends with them too, at least sort of. So its complicated. Do I stop myself now, and if so, how exactly? If not... do I just let things continue as is?
2007-03-16
18:36:21
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