My husband and I have been together for 4 years, married for nearly 1 year (in April). Around Christmastime I found out that he had been contacting a woman that he works with, and things spiraled out of control. We fought several times on this, and I found e-mails between them saying he was in love with her, then that he was going to leave me, and this last time that they had shared hotel rooms together overnight when I had kicked him out and while I was away securing our new apartment while he worked. The first time, he said he was lonely and was ending it. The second time, I threw him oout for a week but took him back. This third time, I yelled at him over the phone, and he agreed to go to counseling. But this has all been over two months. We are now living in another state, but I am not sure that I can ever forgive him lying to me 3 different times and I still continue to spy on him constantly. I don't want to live in doubt, but I am scared of divorce. Any thoughts??
2007-03-09
21:08:47
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lil_babygirl
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Marriage & Divorce