12 yrs of marriage, 2 kids ages 3&12, marriage went to crap, well started crap, some physical violence, verbal abuse, neglectful, he found out I had an affair at the end and then decided he wanted to make it work, but I felt "traumatized by this point" tried marriage counseling, got nowhere, seperated for 6 mths, now I find myself thinking maybe it wasn't so bad, maybe we can make it work..am i crazy? he still downplays the violence, sneaks into my stuff, invades my privacy, then comes over and tells me he loves me and brings me flowers? he is seeing a psychiatrist and trying to figure out what is going on with him, but he's still an A@#hole when he doesnt' get what he wants from me. I am afraid of him moving back in,,afraid I'll never get back out of the relationship if i need to or afraid he'll lose his temper on me again, even though he says he won't. I'm afraid to leave too, cause now he says he won't pay child support cause he'll have joint custody,I know he's gonna make it hard
2007-02-19
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Kat
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Marriage & Divorce