How was the first year with getting used to all the kids and all the changes? Trying to figure out how to deal with my wife’s daughter who we have on a full time basis and my 2 kids part time, trying to adjust to getting everything done now that there’s 5 of us, accepting that she won’t love my kids like I do and vice versa (even though we do love them all), accepting that her family raised her daughter and now they need to back off and let it be just us, her accepting my ex. wife issues, and us in general changing our independent single mindsets that we’ve had for the last few years. It’s really challenging and sometimes I feel like giving up and saying it’s too hard but it’s going to be like this with anybody and the fact is we do love each other we’re just stressed out with all these changes. How do we get it all to work and accept everything before we kill each other or divorce? It would be terrible if we split not only for the kids but because we do love each other. It’s just incredible hard.
2007-01-30
01:44:34
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golf4everdude
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Marriage & Divorce