I need some help with girl prob and some life probs. I dont know why im
> writing to u even if i dont know u, but hope u can help me. I've been
> confused for over 6 months now or maybe longer.
> First, I liked this girl for over a year or more. Well like the situation
> in the site, she is 1 year older than me. And im currently in Form 4 now,
> which means she is sitting for her SPM ( malaysian Exam) this year. Well let
> me start the whole thing off. We started to know each other in January. We
> spent alot of time together, though most of it was with other ppl. In Feb,
> during valentines, she gave me a gift. Well myself, i dont really get
> involved in love life at this age. But she changed me ( even b4 the
> gift). I didnt do anything that time as i wasnt sure if my feelings for her
> is real. So i just left it and we became really close frens.We chatted on9
> for hours and hours.Then maybe cause i didnt give her something for
> valentines, she was kinda close this other guy as i see it, they were
> together as when we talked on9, she kept mentioning his name. Well at that
> time, i thought i shud just backoff from relationships, so i started
> avoiding her.But my feelings were still there for her.1 time, i even walked
> her home and we had fun time together alone. She even gave me a
> nickname....a cute 1. We cared for each other alot.And in skool, though we
> are not in the same class, i know she always keep an eye for me......SHE
> STARES AT ME WHEN I ACT I DONT KNOW SHE IS LOOKING....she even told me i
> have a specialy place in her heart.....
> Thats when the other probs came in. First for my exams, I didnt do very
> well, i did only maybe fairly well( not the normal me). I got like 12th in
> class. Then there was this really long period of time were i didnt talk to
> her for the reason i thought she was with some1 else.well it kinda hurts
> when she mentions guys name in front of me. I dont know why......During that
> time aswell, i experienced a downfall. I was elected as head prefect in my
> school. I shud had been happy but i heard many rumours stating i was second
> choice or thihngs like i dont deserve it. Well i was really depressed and i
> still am. This election thing happened in july.
> In August, I think its been 2 months since i made any contact with the
> girl. I decided i cant go on thinking bout her anymore as it affected my
> studies badly. So 1 day, I asked her out telling her i want to sort things
> out with her. She agreed. That time, I finally told her everything, the
> misunderstandings( why i avoided her.....she knew i avoided her ), and i
> even told her i like her. I dont know why but when we met up she was afraid
> to let her dad see us together. She said she did like me but not now. I said
> its ok......Later on9 on the same day, i talked to her. I asked her what she
> feels about me now.She said im her close and good fren but im diff from
> other ppl as i have a special place in her heart. Then she said that place
> was empty when i avoided her. She also said that i was in that place since
> we met as in got close. I dont know if all that she said was true or was it
> just to make me feel better? Oh, i forgot, her reason was that we both have
> the same principles, thats why we wont further our relationship. Our
> principles are not starting relationships when we are in schooling.Well it
> was true, i did say that a lnog time ago and she remembered it.
> Since that day, I tried to get her off my mind. But the way she treats
> me, is totally diff from how she treats other ppl ( treats me like im her
> boyfren). Thats why im confused.But few days before christmas, i asked her
> out as she was leaving else where. She said she was busy with christmas and
> will contact me later. But she still hasnt. Im wondering if she also feels
> the pain to leave here.I really hope u can help me solve these 2 problems...
2007-01-20
01:38:50
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