Ok, here is my issue. I have a tendency to let people take advantage of me. I am the first person people go to if they have a problem, or issue, or need something. I do like this because it obviously is a good feeling to know people trust you and can depend on you. On the other hand my friends rarely ask me to hang out with them, they often say and do mean things, and use me. I hate to sound as whiny as I do right now, but this has been an issue since I was in grade school, and I'm now in my mid twenties. Several times different people have said to me something to the effect of not wanting to make plans with me because they want to see if a better option comes along, or they will tell me that they only invited me somewere because they couldn't invite another person for some reason. I swear I I'm not annoying, I'm easy to get a long with, I don't smell bad, I'm not judgemental, some say I'm funny. I just don't know what to do anymore, this is kinda killing me. Any advice?
2006-12-24
20:34:42
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