I'm married to a wonderful man, he is caring and supportive, I love him and he loves me but in the last time I've been chatting with my first love, he is also married and with 4 baby girls. I was really in love with him, actually I waited years for him and 2 weeks ago (after 17 years) he confessed that all these years he has been in love with me and he still is, but never proposed because he didn't want to be between our dads' friendship. I am not going to leave my husband, he will not leave his wife and girls neither. We live now very far away from each other (he in America, I in Holland) but he has proposed that when I go to visit my family we can have an affair.
I like this guy a lot, he is really hot, but in the other side I love my husband and I am not going to play with my marriage.
Since he confessed that I day dream with him ... one part of me wants to have that affair but the other one says no. I have not told my husband and I will not do, but I feel guilty.
2006-12-06
22:23:36
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anneke
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Marriage & Divorce