I broke up with him 8 months ago. And I so want to get the ball rolling and get over him. But it's creepy because everyday for the past 8 months, there's not one day that I do not think about him. To make matters worse, he contacts me once a month (always the third week), and it sends me reeling back to Day 1 of the breakup. I know he still wants to be friends, but it's tricky because as much as I want to be, I'm not yet over him.
The break-up was caused by the oh-so used "it's not you, it's me" and he was the one who broke up with me. Prior to the relationship we were really good friends and then we decided to go into it. It was not conventional. We didn't get into a relationship because we were in love. We just liked each other. But then I fell in love with him, and that's when it all came tumbling down.
Will it be cruel of me to tell him that I don't think we can be friends anymore? The reason for this is (and i don't want to tell him) because i still love him.
2006-11-19
06:40:23
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