I have this annoying 3rd aunt who keeps criticizing about her nieces and sister-in-laws (whoever gains weight or whoever is thinner than her). My sister, mother and I are always targeted by her and made fun of in front of everybody. Actually, my sister and i are not overweight, just normal weight with just a little bit of plumpness. Everytime there is family gathering, she will make fun of us that we are fat just like my mother, and everyone would laugh at us. I had to keep a cool face outside, but inside, i was and still am furious! I just cannot stand that she always thinks that she herself is perfect and keeps comparing herself to whoever female relatives who are fatter or thinner than her. Base on my own experiences and many studies, it is known that this kind of mokery and criticizings is extremely detrimental to young ladies' self-esteem. I really do not wish anyone in my family to be bullied by her again. Are there any ways to deal with her? Help please??? sob... ...
2006-11-17
21:38:42
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Daffodil
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