my husband and i were fighting on the phone, he turned his phone off and i left a message on his answering machine saying i cheated....... but i really didn't, he did but i have no hard proof. i want to get a divorce and alimony, but he said if i try to get alimony he saved my message and will show it to the judge and therefore i can't get alimony because i "committed adultry" is that true? i really didn't he is the one who did but i left that stupid message and now he's gonna use it against me. he abandoned me and has abused me and even got arrested for it and i thought after all i've been through i can at least get alimony and now he is screwing that up for me too, what can i do? can i deny it? i mean i did leave the message, it just seems like he is getting away with murder and i am the innocent one and i'm getting screwed. I tried to hurt him by saying those things cuz he actually cheated on me and i wanted him to see how it felt and it didn't even phase him. but i didn't cheat!!!!
2006-11-02
17:46:57
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Marriage & Divorce