Just come back from a holiday with my husband. After 19 years together, it was the first time we went on our own. It was a great . Last year I found out he was cheating. At the time, he said that he wouldn't have left for another woman, but he wanted his space as he had had enough of the marriage, that he wanted to be free and many other things which left me shocked. I was more shocked when he actually left to live in his own flat. Then he started to come back home almost immediately, every week-end, takes me out , phones every night, talks as if nothing has happened. When we came back today, he got ready to go back to his flat, and I was so upset that I asked him whether it might be better if he stayed away for a few months so he could decide what he wanted. He said that it was up to me that it didn't bother him, he would not be pressurised, is taking one day at a time, can't make plans.There was a problem with us and now we must rebuild it slowly. Then he cut the grass.
2006-10-03
10:22:56
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