Due to the ever-increasing divorce rate, people should not get married but rather stay single and only live in partnerships.
In the modern world the marriage is just proven as divorced phenomena, it seems that people get married only for divorce. Some general people to high standard people, who are not content with their marriages, seek for a way out from this boundary despite the fact that they feel extremely restricted and encounter the unsatisfied relationship. Therefore, this essay will explain the fundamental reasons for why people should not get married but rather stay single and only live in partnerships.
First, remaining with a partnership relation is always better than getting married in order to have own freedom. From the time of birth, a person always seeks freedom because there is nothing more important than freedom. Even animals seek freedom: they want to get out from the zoos or the cages. Marriage is a boundary that people cannot get away easily from, despite one’s desperately willing to get out. In fact, when one engages or involves in marriage one’s freedom is swept away. Even though divorce can make them free from the paper or law, backward people (people from backward society) could not get divorced because of someone’s threatening or they also might not know such law is existed which can make them free from this boundary. As a result, they must live with one’s husband or wife whether or not they feel so miserable and sometimes desire to commit suicide. Therefore, remaining only in partnership is always good since law cannot bind them; furthermore, a person living in partnership has more choices out of life than a married person does.
Next, in order to be free from law and losing one’s own property only remaining in partnership is the best way. Once a person gets married generally, one’s property becomes the property of couple or both. Thus, taking advantage of it one’s who is not the real owner of that property can file for the divorce hoping he/she could gain half of it. Whether or not its lawful the owner could not restrain it from being divided. On the other, being only as partnership the property is always in the secure phenomena. Indeed, it doesn’t bring the shame to related family and to society though they break up as such event sometimes would bring shameful circumstances to family and society.
Finally, although opponents assert that marriage always secure to women in some countries including Asian countries such as India, Nepal, Bhutan etc. it is often domination to women because those women, who lost their husbands, always are forced to wear white cloths; it means that they could not get married again, and also they are even treated as bad as imaginary witch; saying that their husbands pass away because of their evilness. Other reason why marriage is domination to women is, they have to write Mrs. whereas men don’t demonstrate their title that other could know whether they are married or not. Therefore, marriage is harmful to one’s life, family, and society.
In conclusion, as the marriage is restriction, domination, freedom loser , its always better to stand far apart from marriage. To be exemplary or good family in the society love is extremely important rather than only sign paper that might contain numbers of conspiracies. If fact, if people do not be aware of all these things more suicidal cases, crimes, discriminations, and peace-less atmosphere will increase rapidly.
2006-09-28
15:06:26
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