We've been married 19 yrs now , and started dating my wife in high school, & married a year later. My wife now wants to leave saying that she cares for me but that feeling isn't in her heart no more. We had a deep hearted talk the other day , and she says she is just missing something, and I admitted to her that It is mostly my fault for not communicating , and not showing enough effection that she needed, And the love life isn't there , I 've become diabetic which is seriously affecting that. I think I fell in that rut , I'm there and shes there so everythings fine. WRONG!!!! She works full time , shes just starting to take a couple college courses, and we have 2 kids. Now she can't eat or sleep, she's just a nervous wreck, wether it's because shes not sure she wants to leave or just afraid to hurt me. In our talk I explained to her that I love her just as much as ever, But I screwed up everything, and that I would stand by what ever decision she makes, hoping that she'll be back.
2006-09-03
10:38:53
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