My husband and I have had many problems. I asked a question the other day, most people said "go to counsling" Well last night, I was trying to talk to him about going. He flat out said that he wasn't going. He says we can fix our problems ourself. It turned into a big fight. However, he never wants to talk about them. He's always running out with his friends, in the middle of a movie, playing his game or doing something for an excuse not to talk about it. How can we fix our problems if he doesn't want to talk about them. I asked him if he'd rather see us split up or go to counsling. He said he wasn't going to counsling. I slept in another room. I did stand up for myself and didn't cower down like normal. But I'm feeling a sense of neglect. It seems I never matter to him. My feelings, problems, nothing. I told him that I was thinkin about leaving. Was it wrong of me? Why should I stay if he doesn't want to try to fix our problems? I'm not sure what to do..any advice???
2006-08-10
03:50:59
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