I have had a boyfriend in long distance relationship for almost 2 years now. He said long ago he wanted to move in with me. He claimed he loved me more than life itself. He went back to school got his GED which I though was great for him. He currently is unemployed. I'm the one with a career. Well he states now he loves me so, but he can't leave his family, loves his mom. I told him he has to decide what he wants to do, where he wants to be. I can't keep the relationship going because he wants to be with his family and wants me at the same time. That would not be fair to both of us. I am heartbroken over all of this,but I can't make him move and I can't make that decision for him on what he really truly wants out of his life. I don't believe he would totally lose his family if he moved here. I have already though of moving there, but that would not work. What should I do with these changes and the relationship now?
2006-08-09
04:34:52
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Queman
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