My verbal/emotionally abusive husband told me that most of his anger is caused by being financially overwhelmed. Together 12 yrs, 2 small kids. We moved to the burbs paying twice as much. I lost my job 6 months ago and everything is on him. He complains about everything. Yet he orders from ebay constanly. We have 90 days to sell the house or it will be foreclosed. I have been planning to leave and I am still scared and now it is staring me right in the face. He had refused counseling the 2nd time, now he's going back and forth. He wants to rent a house and buy a cheaper on in about 3 years.
I am just so confused because he is dr jekyl, mr. hyde. I have remained this long as he is a good provider even though he throws it in my face constantly. I don't know if I should go ahead and start a new life or what. Do you think fewer financial obligations would change him ? My mom says no because he will find something else new to rage about. He has raged at every house even affordable ones
2006-07-31
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Veronique
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Marriage & Divorce