We've been married for 7 yrs and have no kids. I'm 24 and he is 31 yrs. All we ever do is fight about everything. He acts like a child by blowing money on whatever he wants & not paying the bills, spending weekends at friends', and throwing fits when he doesn't get his way. As for me, I have been having bad health problems, so I can't work, go out like I would like to, or have sex very often. Also, I have no self-esteem/confidence so I try to keep him happy at the expense of everything else, but he barely thinks of anyone but himself. We love eachother, but everything else sucks. (I tend to think that love is not enough to save a marriage, especially when everything else is pretty much bad.) He says he'll change and do better by me, but never does.
When is it enough and time to say good-bye? I keep going back and forth from lets just call it quits once & for all, and the guilt of giving up on marriage.
2006-07-27
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