We've been married for 16 years. 4 years into our marriage right after our first child , we were at my dads place for the weekend and my brothers girlfriend flirted and kissed me, yes i kissed back. Got caught that same night. I appologized and felt like dirt. It came up a few times in fights and she said she ows me. I said no because that would be different. If she goes out and seeks an affair , its deliberate and hurtfull. I told her i wouldn't forgive her. sighh well she had a depression 2years ago ( something hereditary unfortunatly) and i helped her through it all.. it was bad. Now she is in another depression and has confessed to cheating on me 6 months ago. We only kissed 3 or 4 times at the bar she says. We had done cocaine before we had children ,we did it for maybe a week and never ever again. She reveals to me that he and her were also taking cocaine in the bathroom and making out. :| She calls it revenge, i call it devastating! I love her with a barely beating heart:(
2006-07-11
20:34:39
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RustyJames
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Marriage & Divorce