I have married a wonderful man, but he has a bad habbit of not doing things he says he will do :making appointments, promises, etc....and not keeping them, not doing them like he said he would. Several people (including me) have been hurt by this behavior and thus people do not want to count on him for anything - not even for small things because we all just end up picking up his slack or else we pay the price for it not being done. When I try to talk to him about it, he gets VERY ANGRY and does not accept it. (I've tried direct, indirect, bribes, sweet and soft, firm and demanding, ect)
I have my share of flaws, but I am tired of making excuses and picking up the pieces for a grown man. I just end up doing everything for him on top of doing everything by myself. HELP! How can I help him be a "man of his word"? 'Am I expecting too much of my man?
2006-06-30
03:50:54
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butterflyfan23
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Marriage & Divorce