I try hard not to get into his mind games, but sometimes it happens and I get all upset and he 'wins'. I've been asking for a divorce, he knows I can't afford a lawyer and we could do it through mediation. He'll only do that if I'll hang out with him and have sex with him sometimes. When I do hang out with him, it all starts over again. He won't let me go. We have a 10 yr old daughter and I don't know how to explain this to her. She wants to know why I won't talk to him. I can't tell her that every time I do he starts messing with my head. He drives by my work & home several times a day and calls at least 6 times a day just to say hi or that he loves me. Then he turns around and accuses me of cheating on him and if I get a divorce he'll do whatever he can to take my daughter away. I'm not worried at all that he'll get her, but that he'd put her through that just to get at me. It's like I have to keep the peace and give him what he wants or he'll make my life a living hell. Please help.
2006-06-25
09:49:40
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wise2u
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Marriage & Divorce