I have been married to a woman that I met when I was 20 and she was 35 and after 20 years, I’ve been thinking we’re overdue for a divorce.
I am generally a happy person and an optimist - my Wife, a negative person and a pessimist. For the first 10 years I ignored our differences and the 2nd 10 fought hard to hold our marriage together, but have now realize I was the only one fighting for it. I have suggested counseling numerous time... she refused, not wanting to 'tell strangers our problems'.
Is it wrong to need to be loved, desired and wanted from your Wife? It feels more like she tolerates me than loves me. Everything I do is an annoyance to her. I am a romantic - I want to hold her but when I come up from behind to hold her and kiss her neck, she shrugs me off like I am bothering her. I bought games that promote romantic discussion and foreplay. She either won't play them or does so half-heartedly. Our 'sex life' is about the same...
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2006-06-22
23:01:44
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anymouse.navy
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Marriage & Divorce