Very recently, and quite suddenly a co-worker became very distant with me. I let it go for a while, then tried to deal with the situation. I asked her if I had said, or done something to offend her. She curtly answered "no", yet continues to be very icy with me, and will only discuss professional matters (although she isn't nasty with it). I had also said to her that had I said or done something wrong, I'd like to right the matter. To that, she made no comment but continues with this behavior.
I feel I've given her the opportunity to tell me if I'd offended or done something wrong. This isn't my imagination, because another co-worker noticed her behavior. If nobody else is around, the icy co-worker won't even say goodbye when she leave work, but if someone is there,she'll say "see you guys".
What if anything can I do? I'm being made to feel as though I've committed some sort of offence, yet could very innocently continue to do whatever it was that has caused the upset.
2007-02-07
07:47:49
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