So why do people do this, is it because you feel a natural closeness to a person similar to you or do you have a game plan like "Im looking for this kind of person to hang with because I feel thier better for me than you, even if you are being nice to me"?
what gives people?
It's funny. I recently join a club at my college ( concert committee) and we help set up concerts. I just started realizing how people "size you up". I try talking to everyone and being open, only to find this "bird of a feather" mentality. Party chicks will only talk to me until other party chicks come around. Same with jocks, goths, band heads, minorities, etc. I never got this before, I always felt that if your open, kind and willing to "be a friend to have a friend" then they should come. Well thats not how it works, silly me huh?
but Im still gonna talk to whomever I feel like.
anyone got any other realizations on people dynamics?
2006-10-04
10:31:52
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