Psychology - September 2007

This summer has been one of the hardest time in my life. Lonely. Disappointment. Confusion. Sadness. It's too much. And at times, it feels like no one really cares either. And I'm not talking about significant relationships...I'm talking about the hardest parts in life. Things I don't understand. How am I supposed to respond?

Act like everything is ok and be cheerful? I'm generally happy on the outside, but deep down in, my heart sometimes breaks. No one really knows what I go through and yet they ocassionally take advantage of me. How are you supposed to respond when life is just not in favor of you?

2007-09-12 13:56:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are some excellent relaxation techniques so you fall asleep?

Not medicine(running out of those).

Any other techniques that make you tired before bed other than take a hot bath and read a book?

2007-09-12 13:52:19 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 1

tell me about what is was, I was obsessed about a movie, I have no clue why

2007-09-12 13:51:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hmmmmm.... I wonder

2007-09-12 13:51:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am counselor and I can't figure this out about myself! That is pathetic. Really, every time I find a man to be attractive and stimulating, someone whom I would like to get to know better I later find out that they are attached, married or not ready for a relationship. I can't figure out what is wrong with me. I have done some deep soul searching and do realize that I have some fears of feeling suffocated or trapped in a relationship, but I also have the maturity and wisdom to deal with these feelings constructivley. I don't think I am much more ambivalent about a relationship than are most folks, maybe just more aware because of my background in psychology. I have heard that if you attract unavailable men it is because on some level you are not available. I have looked at this from every possible angle and have been brutally honest with myself. Can someone please shed some new light on this for me? Please, no jokes or rude, crude comments. I appreciate thoughtful replies.

2007-09-12 13:49:41 · 11 answers · asked by Mystic Renegade 3

I'm in love and I regret it. A lot.

2007-09-12 13:49:12 · 4 answers · asked by Deepu 2

And how can you make low self-esteem turn its self around?

2007-09-12 13:32:12 · 15 answers · asked by Kimmy 2

2007-09-12 13:21:33 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I attracted to them because they are powerful, and if so, does that mean I wish I was more powerful? What is the psychological meaning of this?

2007-09-12 13:14:13 · 4 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1

for example, if i prefer to date a certain race over another, because i find that race more physically attractive, was i conditioned by the media to like them more? or was i born with that preference?

2007-09-12 13:07:27 · 19 answers · asked by clare renee b 2

2007-09-12 12:57:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-12 12:51:05 · 9 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7

2007-09-12 12:49:30 · 15 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7

2007-09-12 12:48:45 · 5 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7

2007-09-12 12:44:21 · 11 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7

2007-09-12 12:42:46 · 12 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7

What are some ways in which one can realize what they want and who they are and what they really want to become? Because I am sooo confused.

2007-09-12 12:18:39 · 6 answers · asked by Tina x 1

Lately, its been extremely hard for me to deal with all the horrible things which happen in this world -- murderers, rapists, etc. I can't seem to get it off my mind and I am saddened by all the evil which exists in this world. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can stop constantly thinking about this and focus on more positive things? Thanks in advance for your advice.

2007-09-12 12:18:18 · 9 answers · asked by b4btechie 1

someone who is physically fit(muscleman)intelligent about a variety of subject matter,intuitive and a good musician.

2007-09-12 12:02:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

In the last year ive become really self conscious and nervous around people. I find it really hard to talk to people nowadays and conversations just dont flow like they used to. I get really uncomfortable when there is silence and im always questioning myself, its like nothing comes naturally to me anymore and im putting way too much thought into everything and too much emphasis on what people think of me. I often cant even motivate myself to talk to my friends because i think ill just have nothing to say. But the thing is i go from one extreme to the other, sometimes you cant shut me up and other times im just zoning out and thinking about what everyone is thinking of me.

I also broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago and thats taking a long time to get over even though i think it was the right thing to do.

Motivating myself to do anything is hard sometimes. Is this something everybody goes through at some stage of their life? (im 21 btw)

2007-09-12 11:50:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maybe my problem isn't unsolvable but it sure does have a lot of complicated equations in it. If you can find me a solution, I would be grateful, add me on my i.d. :

world_peace0

2007-09-12 11:44:58 · 6 answers · asked by Strive to Survive 2

2007-09-12 11:43:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

?

2007-09-12 11:12:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i always think i am so samrt well i am smart but not so much
i don't that is normal .
should i go to the therapist or what?

2007-09-12 10:14:40 · 8 answers · asked by cool724 2

2007-09-12 09:13:27 · 12 answers · asked by Chichiri 1

2007-09-12 08:52:13 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6

my night s fully occupied with dreams.i hardly sleeep for 2-3 hours.many of the dreams become true.familyppl,frnds feared at me due to this abnormality.i get treatment in homeopathy.but it reduce my b total stress.after discontinued the medicine.again i am facing this pblm

2007-09-12 07:54:46 · 3 answers · asked by princess 2

I need some (lots actually) stars to guide me back to shore, xx
A smile or two instead of an angry growl would help too?

2007-09-12 07:38:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

say you had this friend that you trust a lot, get along with well and generally close to them. but then they have some episodes with minor depression so you help them as much as you can. then, a few months later, they tell you that someone else has really helped them and they keep acknowledging them, although you have helped them as well. but they never mention how much you've helped them even though you have known them for a longer time than the other person helping them.
how would you feel if that happened? would you think it was unfair?

btw, if you're going to post silly answers then don't bother. i'm only looking for opinions. thanks.

2007-09-12 07:30:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I was younger I stuttered worse than I do now. But now I seem to have a littel control of it. Some people in my family do it also. It seems that the ones in my family that do it get tounge tied. Where as I can't seem to get the word I'm trying to say out of my mind. I have also heard that if you tickel a baby's feet before they can talk they will stutter later on in childhood throughout life. But My question is why do I do it and is there any way to make it stop permantely?

2007-09-12 07:30:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous