Hi all,
I'm a bit of an introvert who's not good at socializing. When I'm in a group where there're some people who talk fastly, I can't usually catch up and talk with a sense (I talk nonsense more than anyone else; while some other time I just respond with whatever typical that makes sense to avoid causing weirdness to the people I'm talking to and pretend I'm following well BUT actually I'm totally empty of ideas inside), unless I'm very very high and determined in it (but still I would be uncomparable to their level). Yes I get distracted pretty easily too.
I would like some techniques (or any suggestion) on thinking and reacting faster, since I sincerely want to improve that...
- I wanna be someone who can make decisions on my own instead of just following the better people's orders or will.
- I wanna be someone who speak his own mind, voice his opinions, BUT how can I do if I don't even have the "mind" nor the "opinions" now..
Thanks a lot. Your help would be appreciated!
2006-08-29
01:18:11
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driftwood
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Sociology